Men are careful about our genitals. We wash and groom ourselves regularly, and we're always looking to make sure things are "in order" down there. Plus, it's not like you haven't spent a long time with the ol' twig and berries—it's almost like you've been friends with them your whole life. Jokes aside, the point we're trying to make is: You know every single detail of your genitals and the area around them. Every follicle, every wrinkle, every curve. So, when something is amiss, you notice it immediately. And when it comes to our genitals, any change to the norm is enough to induce a heart attack. So, chances are you're here because something down there is out of order, and you're wondering: Herpes or ingrown hair?
Well, luckily, telling the difference is pretty simple if you know what to look for.
Ingrown hairs are a common annoyance that can affect anyone who shaves or waxes their body hair. They can itch and form a reddish bump and, if infected due to folliculitis, cause a significant amount of discomfort.
When an ingrown hair becomes infected, it’s quite common for a pustule to form around the hair follicle. Since these pustules often contain fluid and crust over during the process of healing, it’s easy to confuse them with the sores that can develop in a herpes outbreak.
Ingrown hairs can occur on the face and on the body, making it easy to understand why many people affected by ingrown hairs become concerned that they have oral or genital herpes.
On the other hand, people that frequently get ingrown hairs can easily brush off an outbreak of herpes as “just another ingrown hair”—something that can make treating the virus and slowing the spread of herpes much more difficult.
This means that it’s very important that you can tell the difference between an inflamed hair follicle and a herpes lesion, especially if you’re concerned that you might have recently been exposed to the herpes virus.
In this guide, we’ll explain the key differences between the pustules formed when an ingrown hair becomes infected and the lesions that can develop during a herpes outbreak. We’ll also share treatment options for both conditions to help you heal your skin as quickly as possible.
Ingrown hairs develop when hair grows sideways, coming into contact with the skin instead of growing directly through the skin’s surface.
Just about everyone who shaves their facial or body hair will experience ingrown hairs at some point in life. Some people get ingrown hairs more frequently than others, either due to a genetic factor (such as curly hair or excess sebum) or because of their shaving or waxing technique.
Most ingrown hairs are harmless, causing little more than a reddish bump (known as a razor bump) and minor discomfort. Some people have a more severe reaction to ingrown hairs and develop painful, itchy razor burn that can only be treated by changing their shaving habits.
Ingrown hairs can usually be removed using tweezers, treated using glycolic acid or simply left to heal on their own.
However, since the pimples that can develop around ingrown hairs are exposed to air, sweat and other substances, they can easily become infected. When ingrown hairs become infected, it’s normal for them to develop into painful sores that can resemble a herpes outbreak.
When you develop an infected ingrown hair, it’s part of a condition called folliculitis. Folliculitis causes generally include a bacteria—most commonly staphylococcus aureus—which enters into the hair follicle through the small pimple that can develop around an ingrown hair.
Folliculitis lesions look and feel almost exactly like herpes lesions, complete with a crust-like surface during the healing process, making them difficult to tell apart at first glance, which makes "herpes or ingrown hair?" an even more difficult question to answer.
It’s also particularly difficult to tell folliculitis lesions apart from herpes lesions as people tend to shave their hair in the same places herpes can develop—around the lips, on the upper thighs and near the genitals.
Luckily, there are several signs you can use to determine whether or not a sore is an infected ingrown hair or a herpes lesion:
Finally, the best way to tell if you have herpes or an infected ingrown hair is to speak to your doctor. A quick examination of the affected area will let your doctor tell you if you have sores caused by the herpes virus or normal razor bumps or folliculitis from an ingrown hair. On the off chance your doctor can't give you visual confirmation, you can also speak to them about a herpes test.
Ingrown hairs are easy to treat. Most of the time, they’ll heal on their own over the course of a few days. Particularly troublesome ingrown hairs can stick around for several weeks, although you usually won’t experience any more complications than red, pimple-like skin bumps.
If an ingrown hair becomes infected, you can easily treat it using topical antiseptic, antibiotic or antiviral medication, depending on the type of infection.
Herpes, on the other hand, requires a more thorough approach to treatment. During the initial outbreak of herpes, you’ll typically be prescribed a combination of an antiviral medication such as valacyclovir (Valtrex) to treat the virus and a pain relief medication for other symptoms.
Because herpes is a lifelong infection, you might also need to take suppressive antiviral drugs such as valacyclovir over the long term to control subsequent outbreaks and lower your risk of infecting others.
herpes or ingrown hair isn't a fun game to play, but no matter what you're experiencing, there’s no need to panic. Herpes is a very common virus, with the HSV-1 variant of the herpes virus affecting more than 50% of the global population and the less common HSV-2 variant affecting around 11% of people under 50.
It’s also a virus that’s extremely easy to treat. Modern, safe and affordable medications such as valacyclovir can reduce the severity of oral and genital herpes outbreaks and speed up healing time, all while lowering your risk of spreading the virus to other people.
Our Valacyclovir 101 guide goes into more detail about how herpes medication works, covering everything from the drug’s mechanism of action and efficacy to typical dosages, side effects and more.